so my mom is a USC but because she became a USC after i turned 21, a visa is not available for me until my priority is current with NVC. what happens to someone's petition after they turn 21 is that they get put into categories. there are 4 different ones. Mexico being the one that is the most backlogged.
i thought about filing the I-130 again but my lawyer said it wouldnt do any good because of my age. i would be in the same position i am now. the "immediate relative" only applies to those UNDER 21 because they are still considered "children".
i've already come to the understanding that it's completely beyond my control. i've been to so many layers about all this and only one was able to come up to a solution. i could have applied for something called Family Unity, which are for children of those who were granted amnesty in the 80s, like my mother did. however, i had to get evidence from may of 1985 and i was only 2 back then.its pretty much like DACA, but the category on the EAD is different.