Yuly87 15 Posted February 27, 2013 So I have to admit I been so stressed and depressed lately...waiting for an answer is affecting my daily living..im a strong girl..I was so happy since I started the process.. it made me happy to have this opportunity. But things changed since my status was updated to a RFE. Its been hard..I couldn't take it anymore and I just cried and cried yesterday asking myself why is this happening to me?..all my friends got approved...all i want is to succeed. my whole future is sitting in someones office waiting to be approve by an unknown person.. :'( 1 Osha reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skootA 10 Posted February 27, 2013 when did u send your form in ?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yuly87 15 Posted February 27, 2013 They received my application on September 13 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
taramo35 27 Posted February 27, 2013 u yesterday its me today Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yuly87 15 Posted February 27, 2013 when did u send your form in ?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yuly87 15 Posted February 27, 2013 u yesterday its me today I been thru a lot in my life. .but this is one of the hardest things Im going thru...my whole future depends on this approval Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
taramo35 27 Posted February 27, 2013 im glad we have this apportunity but its so unfair ... i just bougth a car n is sitting there in my garage Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Calidreamer 100 Posted February 27, 2013 This is what I ve on a sticky note on my mirror: "For anything worth having one must pay the price; and the price is always work, PATIENCE, love, self-sacrifice - no paper currency, no promises to pay, but the gold of real service." -John Burroughs I know it's not easy, and it really sucks, but pick yourself up and stand a little taller. We waited much longer for DECA to come along, just a few more days! BTW when did you send your RFE? What did they ask for? 5 engineer2mike, Fresita22, christmastree77 and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Osha 126 Posted February 28, 2013 So I have to admit I been so stressed and depressed lately...waiting for an answer is affecting my daily living..im a strong girl..I was so happy since I started the process.. it made me happy to have this opportunity. But things changed since my status was updated to a RFE. Its been hard..I couldn't take it anymore and I just cried and cried yesterday asking myself why is this happening to me?..all my friends got approved...all i want is to succeed. my whole future is sitting in someones office waiting to be approve by an unknown person.. :'( Don't let this break you. We immigrants have suffered for so long and yet we've never given up hope. You WILL be approved its just a matter of when. Just remember that you're just a day away from being approved. That approval will come unexpectedly and when it does you'll be overwhelmed with joy, Just enjoy life's simplest things and don't think too much about your application. 2 Fresita22 and engineer2mike reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karry Perez 9 Posted February 28, 2013 I understand exactly how you feel I feel the same way, there's times when I feel like crying and just giving up but I know at the end of the day it will all be worth it. Keep your head up remember what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Goodluck 1 engineer2mike reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fresita22 101 Posted February 28, 2013 Hey dnt worry im on da same boat im broke depress and mad at not getting approved but like my mom and my friends here at the forum say just wait for it it will come when you least expect it youll see 1 LALY86 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yuly87 15 Posted February 28, 2013 Don't let this break you. We immigrants have suffered for so long and yet we've never given up hope. You WILL be approved its just a matter of when. Just remember that you're just a day away from being approved. That approval will come unexpectedly and when it does you'll be overwhelmed with joy, Just enjoy life's simplest things and don't think too much about your application. I understand exactly how you feel I feel the same way, there's times when I feel like crying and just giving up but I know at the end of the day it will all be worth it. Keep your head up remember what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Goodluck Hey dnt worry im on da same boat im broke depress and mad at not getting approved but like my mom and my friends here at the forum say just wait for it it will come when you least expect it youll see Thanks you guys...when I cry somehow my tears wash the pain I feel inside. ..is like I hold so much then I burst into tears after crying I recuperate. ..then I see myself in the same spot..waiting. . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Laste31 41 Posted February 28, 2013 Looks like we're in the same boat! I try not to let it get to me but at night when I'm trying to fall asleep, I get emotion and start crying I really hope I get approved soon and all of you guys that are waiting too cuz this is not a good way of living! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ruthie_sue08 31 Posted March 1, 2013 Don't worry guys it will happen when you least expect it. I was also feeling down & out when i got my RFE but then the process went pretty fast after that! Have faith & it will happen! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jbr28 5 Posted March 1, 2013 app received on aug 28th bio on oct 3rd.... nothing else, i have not recieved anything. i keep calling and all they say is to wait that my case is in vermont. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
