pretty_sharay 0 Posted April 30, 2013 Hi all, I know this might be a little of topic but I don't know where else to seek advice on this. My boyfriend and I recently broke up and have a newborn baby. He refuses to help me with childcare for her, so I told him I wanted to go through the court for support, now I'm only asking him to pay for her childcare with a babysitter because I work, I'm not asking him to pay my bills! He refuses for us to go through the court so he threatend me with deporting me for not being Legal. My DACA petition was received March 26th, and it is in initial review. Now my question is, Will this affect my petition at all if I go to court with him? Or should I just wait until my DACA is approved ( I meet all the requirements). Any Insight would be much appreciated, thank you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Santi 353 Posted April 30, 2013 Hi all, I know this might be a little of topic but I don't know where else to seek advice on this. My boyfriend and I recently broke up and have a newborn baby. He refuses to help me with childcare for her, so I told him I wanted to go through the court for support, now I'm only asking him to pay for her childcare with a babysitter because I work, I'm not asking him to pay my bills! He refuses for us to go through the court so he threatend me with deporting me for not being Legal. My DACA petition was received March 26th, and it is in initial review. Now my question is, Will this affect my petition at all if I go to court with him? Or should I just wait until my DACA is approved ( I meet all the requirements). Any Insight would be much appreciated, thank you! I would wait until I receive Deferred Action in order to consider litigation...but that is just me, perhaps someone else has had a similar experience/knows someone that had a similar experience and might shed some light into the matter... In regards to deportation, don't worry...They can't come to your house and take you, just because...they have to have a reason to do so (traffic infraction, domestic violence, felony, etc etc)...therefore, don't worry too much about it, but stay under the radar and avoid any situations where you could expose yourself and your 'freedom.' BTW - I really like your profile pic! - you look Sexy! lol 1 lyssa reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyanite 13 Posted April 30, 2013 Record him threatened you about deportation. Its against the law. I even think theres a visa out there to help you in situations like that. Take him to court. They dont care if you are illegal or not. 2 pretty_sharay and stolenlacs reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tinkerbell1 7 Posted April 30, 2013 i agree, he can't threaten you. i suggest you record him because that is against the law; that can be considered as verbal abuse. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
snoop90044 13 Posted April 30, 2013 Don't Worry Once U Apply For Daca They Cant Deport You, He Can Get Introuble For He ThreatS Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
snoop90044 13 Posted April 30, 2013 By The Way IF He Hits You Or Does Anything Violent Tours You Report It And Follow Threw On It, U Might Qualify For A Visa Later On, Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sotero_gonzalez 54 Posted April 30, 2013 Something similar happened to my sister. she was with someone and got pregnant, they were both undocumented. My niece was born and shortly after the guy got his residency through his parents and just decided to not be with her or help her financially over night. My sister then told him if he didn't help financially that she was going to ask for child support. Mr high and mighty with his residency threatened to call immigration on her and have her deported. Afraid, she hesitated at first but eventually they ended up in court. In my sisters case, she had a few people testify in her favor that heard the guy threaten her. She eventually got child support from him and she also got a social from all her troubles. This was back in 2000 so I don't know if the same laws still apply today that would help you with your situation. I don't think you should be afraid to take him to court. Like a lot of people are saying on here, they don't care about you not having a social, what they care about is the well being of the child. Also, no one knows to what extent you need financial support but you. So just do it and get what you deserve for taking care of your daughter on your own. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stolenlacs 37 Posted April 30, 2013 My advice is get an app to record your phone conversations so it can be proved how he treats you and threatens you like everyone has said it is illegal to threaten you, if you feel unsafe get a no trespassing order against him so he cannot come to your property, if his behavior escalates you can also ask your a protective order texts voicemails phone conversations can all work in court. I'm sorry you are going through this, if USCIS has your paperwork I don't see how can they just deport you only because he makes that call to them, they KNOW you are illegal by now and I dont think they will try to remove you if you have not committed a crime. Good luck to you and let's hope all this gets settled and you can get the help you deserve foryour child. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rawf 336 Posted April 30, 2013 Record him and take him to court, you will be beneficed. Good luck. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Santi 353 Posted April 30, 2013 The people have spoken! You should put so many lawyers up his butt, so that people think they are opening a branch office up there! 'Nuff Said! (They see him ^ rollin'... they hatin') Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pretty_sharay 0 Posted April 30, 2013 Thank you all for you insight I'm going to meet with a lawyer next week.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
